To me, my greatest challenge now is on the upbringing of my kids. Having them for 9 months in my tummy and delivering them is small thing compare to taking care of them, disciplining them, guiding them and also making sure that I’m instilling the right value on them.
There are times I myself wasn’t sure if there is really a right way, or there is a guide book that I can follow on the way I should bring them up. I know I’ve brought them for baptism, I know I should bring them up according to God’s way. But the thing is I’m not even sure I’m that godly. I don’t even read the bible everyday. There are hidden message in the bible and I won’t be knowing it if I don’t read.
I know there is something wrong if I’ve taught them the wrong way ‘cos it will be reflected pretty soon on the way they answer me. It had happened several times on “where did you learn that” situation but when I look closely, they are just absorbing whatever that they saw and whatever that they hear from their surrounding, including me.
Talking about teaching the crab to walk straight. I myself need to be someone who is real straight and happy to get happy children isn’t it? Yupe, this is definitely a real challenge for me. Even now I’m not sure what am I talking about here. I’ve just got too many things to complain about till my sons also learning from me – complaining! Ops! Oh ya.. and he was yelling at me too. Goodness, I better watch out.
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