Sometimes I wonder if I’m the victim or I’m the predator. I mean in communication wise, we are just so different. I mean men and women.
When I’m face with problems, I’ll either let it all out with a trusted friend or pampered myself with something. But for my men, he will stay in his “cave”. Just like what is written in “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus”. One part that I just don’t get it is right after a fight, he wanted to make out! What sort of theory is that? But as it says in the book, men took it as a sign that problem is solved if they can make out after that, is the way how they say sorry. But for us, well.. who wanted to make out when you are still pissed?
Well, probably if really bad things occurred, our kids is the real victim for having to see their parents in a fight and don’t have a clue on what’s really going on.
For those of you who would love to get to know what’s in the head of our partner, take a look at this article over in Ezine.
Come back in to updating. I’m actually now over in Shenzhen in hubby’s place. While the boys are in their bed then only I can update this blog. I pray that my two boys will grow up to be gentlemen, though most of the time here they still fight with each other. Will be here till Friday and maybe we’ll have a chance to go Ocean Park on Saturday. Then off back to Sabah on Sunday.
